Rebecca Weinberg

 — stylist
"I don't have a job where I have to put on a slip, trousers or a dress shirt. I don't have to impress anyone but myself. It would be death to me." Rebecca Weinberg

“Real creativity comes from not having a lot,” Rebecca feels. And she has the cred to prove it, having been nominated for three Emmys for co-creating the “fifth” character on Sex and the City, the groundbreaking, quirky and original style of its main characters. It was the first episodic series on television to dip into high fashion, and the designers were unwilling to lend clothes at first. It was within these limitations that Rebecca’s outsider, rebel aesthetic, much like the one of her hero and fellow Texan, Janis Joplin, could shine. During that time period, it was a stroke of brilliance to throw on a pair of Manolos with sweatpants and turn the athletic wear into a shrug. Preferring pockets to handbags, Rebecca made the fanny pack a new kind of uptown chic on Carrie.

Rebecca is a fashion stylist from the days when that term did not exist. She came to New York in 1986 to do musical theater: “I wanted to be Liza Minnelli. I wanted to be naked, dancing on table tops.” Instead, she found herself on Avenue B, around future fashion innovators like herself, like David LaChapelle. Together, they would “do wardrobe” on Rebecca for his photos. She attributes her dexterity with visual communication to the transsexuals she met when she first came to the city who showed her how to “make something from nothing, at times utilizing things from Kmart.” She also credits her mom, who had her at a very young age: “We were two free spirits out in the universe and she led me to express myself… everyday as a kid, I was someone else and my mother promoted it.” Rebecca’s mother dropped her off at school in fifty degree weather decked out in a mink coat and hat, and Rebecca in an outift inspired by one of her other icons, Lucille Ball. The comic redhead is still an influence – Rebecca wears a Rudy Gernreich jumper with the whimsical touch of Bass saddle shoes.

Rebecca admires life’s most audacious characters and she is one herself. There was her “Peggy Moffitt” moment, and despite being covered in tattoos, she can give you “uptown drag” by wearing a Lanvin dress to an art gallery. Rebecca’s wife, Debbie, with whom they are bringing up their five year old daughter, Amelie, refers to Rebecca as forever fifteen. Fifteen, Rebecca says, was her “year of anarchy and nothing has changed now that I am in my forties.” But like an abstract painter knows how to paint classically, Rebecca understands the ultimate power of unfashion in dungarees (never a stretchy jean), a breton shirt, beret, Rolex watch, her grandfather’s ID bracelet and wing tips, despite her studded Bess combat boots.

If you love Rebecca, you may also like Lori Goldstein, Christine De Lassus, Mario Monroe and Geoffrey Young.

  • Ramona Canino

    Rebecca’s one of the best women around! Honest, productive and always having a good time while staying true to herself. My hero.

  • http://www.facebook.com/brandonactonbond Brandon Acton-Bond

    I think the more SLU videos I watch, the more SLU debunks this crazy myth that NYers are rude, mean, aggressive people. Clearly Rebecca cares! That first quote about “real creativity comes from not having a lot” is soooooo fucking true. I remember when I moved back to NY with barely any money and was looking for a job for 2 months and couldn’t buy anything but food and a metro pass and she’s right. You turn those shirts upside down, sweaters become pants, a tie becomes a wristlet. I think that time in my life was probably the most revealing for me as to what a piece of clothing could be, which is anything. Rebecca you are heroic for being true and real. Thank you.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001912639620 James Mccaffery

    I’ve maybe never seen somebody so in charge. Even on SLU she stands out for being so ultra-comfortable in her own skin.

  • http://www.facebook.com/nycdancer Loan Tran

    I love her style and her philosophy and outlook on life! I feel very much the same way. :D Free spirits all the way!

  • http://www.facebook.com/pleasebegood Sophie Samul

    I couldn’t agree with Rebecca more when she says that real creativity comes from not having a lot. All of my life I was interested in thrift stores and vintage stores, but found that I couldn’t afford the higher end vintage stores near my hometown. Starting from the age of 18, my best friend and I would take hour long drives to a thrift store in a strip mall the middle of nowhere, and to goodwill stores in a rough neighborhood of Philadelphia. These places are quite literally the size of a grocery store and no piece of clothing – whether it be cashmere, silk, polyester, or cotton, was ever more than $5. One was organized with racks and racks of clothing sorted by type and then by color, and the other was more of roll in the mud, get down on the floor and find stuff kind of place. We would literally spend 5 hours every few weeks in these places, going through each and every article of clothing in the entire place. It sounds so crazy, but it’s true. I have found so many irreplaceable articles of clothing in these places. It is in these trips and the hours I spent hunting down clothing (for a price that never ceases to blow my mother away and thank her lucky stars that I’m “thrifty”) that my personal style really began to blossom, not in the department stores where there are racks and racks of the same thing at prices I can’t afford.

    This is a terribly long winded way of saying I am with Rebecca 100%.

  • http://www.facebook.com/sherinola Sheri Mora

    Rebecca was born with style AND substance. A true and treasured gem…not to mention she can (still) rock ANYTHING she gets her hands on!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1216597198 Laura Pulgarin

    I just love her and everything about her. She is soooo inspirational in not just her style but also everything she wears. Thank you SLU, you always provide me with inspiration to not only break out but also to keep on going.

  • http://www.facebook.com/alvim.j Juliana Alvim

    What an incredible, inspiring woman.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001113977228 S.f. Perrius

    Allah, Alejandro–hilarious!

  • staceykelly

    she is definitely a character, i love that! i agree with her quote about real creativity 100%.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=524313390 Åsa Copparstad

    Great style, all the way, cool personality!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1405253778 Domonique Echeverria

    I have always loved her projects, she is amazing, and SOOO goddamn beautiful!

  • http://www.facebook.com/wgetchell Wendy Getchell

    you rock!

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1199763712 Sam Jones

    LOVE HER!

  • lamari

    how is it possible to even discuss her life as a stylist without even mentioning patricia field?!!! come on now.

  • lamari

    i don’t know how their relationship ended up it’s seems completely dishonest to not even mention patricia.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1768100638 Rachel Stevens

    I met Rebecca about 15 years ago, I believe at Coney Island High. My friend was interested in her, but she told us she was in a relationship…however she was SO friendly and welcoming and she invited us to hang with her and her friends and we all hit a couple of other places. I was still at Parsons and my friend was at NYU and it was obvious Rebecca was very well connected in NY but she was totally down to earth and just so sweet that she included us without a second thought! So yes she’s remarkably beautiful but she is also just a very cool, warm person . :)